Video - Holocaust and Genocides event 2020

Video Release of Holocaust and Genocides. 

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The 15th Annual Reflections on Holocaust and Genocides were held on 1/26/2020 at the Arlington Central Library in Virginia, a suburb of Washington DC. The purpose of this event was education, information, and activism. We hope to learn and acknowledge our failings and make a personal commitment to say, “Never Again.”

 Tikkun Olam is our sacred duty; in the broader context, it means restoring the harmony between humans and what surrounds them, life, and environment. We hope the attendees walked out of the program with a genuine feeling of empathy with those who have endured the Holocaust, genocide, ethnic cleansing, massacres, rapes, lynching, harassment, injustice, and other atrocities. We are all in this together to create a better world.

Holocaust and Genocides is a Muslim initiative to assure fellow humans who have endured the Holocaust, Genocide, ethnic cleansing, massacres, rapes, injustice, and other atrocities that we are all in this together to create a better world. Tikkun Olam indeed is our sacred duty.

 We hope you share this video with your friends and groups, the more of us learn about the signs of genocides and what we can do to prevent them – in effect saying “Never Again.” Over the last 14 years, we have covered many genocides, massacres, ethnic cleansing, religious persecution, lynching, rapes, harassment, and other acts that do not respect the dignity of fellow humans.

 One of the most important lessons we need to learn is to get rid of the selfishness in us, meaning our misery is more important than other’s pain. We are all in this together. No single community is more privileged than the other.

We thank Dr. Frank Islam for being the primary sponsor of the event, and Dr. Rani Khan, Dr. Arif Mehmood, and Dr. Maqsood Chaudhry for sponsoring the event. Nausheen and Ehsan Baig for providing refreshments and volunteering. We also thank Charles Stevenson and Dr. Zafar Iqbal for volunteering. We thank our master of ceremony, speakers, and attendees, for, without them, the program would not have happened.

 Dr. Rani Khan and Dr. Mike Ghouse chaired the event

15th Annual Reflections on Holocaust and Genocides
5:30 PM - 8:30 PM Sunday, January 26, 2020
Arlington Central Library, 1015 N. Quincy Street
Arlington, VA 22201

Speakers & Topics

Robert F. Teitel – Enduring Holocaust

Dr. Gregory Stanton – Ten Signs of Genocides
Gary Sampliner, Ibrahim Anli, and Walter Ruby – Announcements

Dr. Wakar Uddin - Rohingya Genocide in Making

Omer Kanat - Uyghur Genocide in Making

Muneer Baig - Indian Government choking freedom in Kashmir

Dr. TO Shanavas – Update on India’s violation of freedoms

Dr. Mike Ghouse – What can you do?

Dr. Rani Khan - Peace Pledge

Rabia Baig – MC

Ten Stages of Genocide, Dr. Gregory H. Stanton, President, Genocide Watch

Genocide is a predictable process. It develops in Ten Stages that are not linear, but which allow us to logically understand the warning signs of genocide.  They are Classification (us vs. them); Symbolization (identity cards); Discrimination (laws or customs denying rights); Dehumanization (calling groups “aliens,” “terrorists”, “vermin” “insects”); Organization (hate groups, armies, militias, death squads); Polarization (exclusionary propaganda); Preparation (planning); Persecution (arrests, torture, ghettos, deportation); Extermination (killing, starvation, mass rape); and Denial (lies, legalisms, blaming victims, euphemisms.)

Ibrahim Anil, Rumi Forum

The event was a powerful reminder of the bitter fact that genocides: that humanity suffered in the past, those actually taking place and those, unfortunately, are likely to come, stand as a litmus test of what human progress lacks. History does not record another era with a similar level of wealth and technological advances like our times. Yet humanity seems to have failed to make equally impressive progress in containing the inherent arrogance it harbors against the other. A conflict is a form of behavior. If it is learned, it can also be unlearned. It is this gap that such efforts like CFP try to address.

Kashmir: A Paradise on Earth. Muneer Baig

Kashmir has many names that reflect its beauty, hospitality, and secular nature. One such name is the Valley of Saints (Pira Waer), a name earned as a result of religious diversity and tolerance.

People engaging in violence have root causes, but governments engaging in violence do not have root causes but an objective to achieve end results, in the case of Kashmir it was to wipe our Kashmiri Muslims. Governor, Jagmohan Sharma (Demolition Man) of BJP, unleashed a draconian force armed with the Special Powers Act to “Kill at Will” without accountability. Almost 3 decades later the soil of Kashmir continues to soak in the blood of innocent Kashmiri men, women, and children. The cries of women echo the Himalayas asking for help and justice against perpetrators. Three decades later families of those massacred in Gawkadal, Handwara, Hawal, Sopore, etc. are still waiting for justice.

 Charles Stevenson

 "A vivid, eye- and heart-opening examen into some of the major genocides of our times, this program is an appeal to knowledge, compassion, responsibility, and action brought to us personally by some who have themselves experienced genocide, personally."

Walter Ruby

I was honored to participate in the15th Annual Reflections on Holocaust and Genocides at Arlington Central Library on January 26 sponsored by my dear friend Dr. Mike Ghouse and his Center for Pluralism. I spoke about the life and times of Holocaust survivor Michael Edelstein whose memoirs I wrote together with my brother Dan Ruby entitled "Live Another Day: How I Survived the Holocaust and Realized the American Dream." (see website www.liveanotherdaybook.com). Speakers at the Holocaust Remembrance Day event included including Dr. Wakar Uddin, President, Rohingya Association, Mike Ghouse, President of Center for Pluralism, Ibrahim Anli, and Gary Sampliner, Executive Directors of JAMAAT, expert on genocide Dr. Gregory Stanton, Omer Kanat, president of the Uyghur Association and Holocaust survivor Robert Teitel. We heard horrifying reports on brutal repression, violence, and dehumanization being instituted against the Uyghurs in China, the Rohingya in Burma and the Kashmiris and other Muslims in India with chilling parallels to the Holocaust. Kudos to Mike Ghouse for organizing this an important event on Holocaust Remembrance Day and reminding all of us that if “Never Again” is to have any meaning or relevance, we must stand together and fight back against murder, violence, and genocide, no matter who is the victim.

We appreciate the following Organizations for their support.

Interfaith Council of Metropolitan Washington

Muslim Public Affairs Council (MPAC)

Pozez Jewish Community Center of Northern Virginia

Foundation for Ethnic Understanding

American Sikhi Educational and Empowerment Network 

Jews, Muslims and Allies Acting Together (JAMAAT)

Response USA for Relief and Development (RUSARD)

Islamic Society of Washington Area (ISWA)

Church of Scientology National Affairs Office 

Jews for Jewish Muslim Understanding

Thank you

Mike Ghouse
www.CenterforPluralism.com
www.HolocaustandGenocides.com 
Washington, DC
Off: (202) 290-3560
Cell: (214) 325-1916
Mike@CenterforPluralism.com

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Can a Muslim woman marry a Non-Muslim Man?

This is a short version, the full version is in the book

Please visit our website www.InterfaithMarriages.org for details 

Can a Muslim Woman Marry a Non-Muslim Man?

By Mike Ghouse
If you are a Muslim woman considering marrying outside your faith, please read the well-researched, 6000 Words chapter in the book American Muslim Agenda available at Amazon, Kindle, and Barnes & Noble. 

The book is a Muslim effort in building a cohesive America where each one of the 323 million Americans feels secure about his/her faith, race, ethnicity and culture. It is bold writing that Muslims have not dared to speak in the past for fear of fatwas. This book will resonate with 90% of American Muslims who want to live their lives with freedom and get along with fellow Americans. I hope you find this book in tune with your vision of America. 

The discussion is about the marriage of single Muslim women in America in general and Muslim women in their fifties in particular. There are not enough Muslim men out there, and interfaith marriage is one of the few viable options to them. Most of the American Muslim Women rule out the idea of marrying someone from their home country as it does not work out culturally nor do they have the patience for arranged marriages. They want to get to know the guy before marrying, and that is not easy. Today, nearly 40% of Muslim women marry outside of their faith and most of them without conversion.

Researching the matrimonial sites, out of 1000 Muslim women, only 30% of them over the age of 50 have listed Islam as their religion, the rest have registered themselves as spiritual but not religious, and they invariably add, “religion is no bar.” Meaning, people of other faiths can approach.

There is nothing you can do, it is not your life, and you don’t have solutions either. You can tell them to marry a Muslim man, but it is their life, they have seen the growth, go through a divorce or have not married at all, and they know what they want. They want a man to marry and not religion.  A majority of Muslims quietly go along with these decisions, some have many questions, and some are ready to quote verses from the Quran and make declarations that they are out of the pale of Islam. Islam is a religion of Aalameen, the universe and its tent are too big not to accommodate differences.

By the way, this is not an exclusively Muslim problem; it is a problem in all faiths, again it is not the faith, but the whims of the guardians of the gospel.

If you are a binary robotic Muslim who parrots between two words Halal and Haram on autopilot, then this article is not for you. If you believe your religion is guidance to live a happy and harmonious life and God has given the intelligence to think and live such an experience, please read on!

Remember, Islam is a deen of Fitra, a natural reflection of one’s nature, so if it is not common sense, then it is not Islam. Islam is not about forcing and regulating others life but bringing harmony and peace to humankind.

This piece is for those Muslims who understand the essence of Islam which is to create cohesive societies. It is for those who follow God’s signs. He has created the earth and the heavens, planets and the systems and programmed them to function cohesively. To understand cohesion, let’s start with our bodies. We are composed of billions of different cells, but most certainly we can see that our bodies have several different organs, and all of them have to work together for us to live a normal life.  We are one planet, one earth and one system of creation and through one cause. That is one God.

If you are struggling with the idea of pursuing a relationship with a man, who is not a Muslim, but you like him and want to spend your life with him and are tempted to be Bibi Khadija, then it is your choice.  Finding the truth is your responsibility, and in Islam, no one is responsible for your actions but you, and no one bears the burden of others. It is your decision, and you have to live with it, so think through it.

Guarding the flock is a human trait, and no tradition wants to lose a member of their culture to the other, whether you are a Hindu, Christian, Sikh or a Jew, Republican, Democrat, Libertarian or new, indeed, any tradition for that matter. Muslims are no exception, and there is no need to beat up on Islam for your comprehension deficiency.

Quran does not expressly forbid Muslim women marrying non-Muslim men, and neither prophet has explicitly prohibited it. If you read the verses particularly the oft-quoted verses 60:10 and 2:221, there is an advisement to marry with whom you are compatible, and with whom you can live in harmony. It is relational guidance that a believing bondsman is better than a non-believing man and vice-versa for men. The comparison is for one to understand that social status is not essential, but harmony is.

Marriage is all about harmony – God wants his creation to live in peace. You don’t want to live with someone with conflicts throughout the day.  If you find a spouse who can live with you in harmony despite religion, race or region, then that ‘advisement’ or the condition is not applicable anymore.  After all, God is the one who puts love between two souls and it the couple who has to live their lives.

In verse 60:10 disbelievers were those individuals who prevented the believers from practicing their faith; there was an element of hostility between them. However, today, most people of faith are believers in God in one fashion or the other. I have officiated weddings between an Atheist and a faithful, and it is about harmony and not the belief. If they can live in Harmony, God will not come in between their love, and it is him or his system that made each other want to come together.  It is about compatibility and harmony and not religion or another case.

The questions are endless, but the answer is a powerful one, and that is accountability.  In the traditional societies parents rightfully felt responsible for guarding the happiness of their offspring, whereas parents in North America are learning to believe that their kids are independent and know what they want in their lives, and will find their happiness.  Ultimately, they have to live their own lives.

There is one segment of single Muslim women that is reaching an enormous percent of all the single women.  These women are in their late 40’s, 50’s and 60’s. In my interviews, one of the ladies was 73 and was looking for a man younger than herself in the model of Bibi Khadija. Mind you, the divorced or widowed women and certainly not looking for a provider, nor do they entertain having children. They are merely looking to have a friend and a companion in their marriages and live their own lives. God wants nothing more for his creation than harmony and happiness.

No woman should be denied her right to life, liberty, and happiness. No one can push an American Muslim woman to marry anyone other than whom she wants. By marrying someone she can be happy with, her faith remains strong, if not she would a Muslim in the name.

Some of us may not want to acknowledge it, but the 2nd and 3rd generation American Muslims will have their own Islam that differs from others in other lands. However, the American practice of Islam would be closer to the one Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) practiced; a religion committed to building cohesive societies and caring for fellow humans and environment, in essence, Islam tells you to mind your own business as you do on the Day of Judgment.

Indeed, we all have the same Islam, and there is no doubt about it. However, our cultures are different, the culture of Nahadatul Ulema,  Deobandis, Naqshbandis, Sufis, Sunnis, Shias, Ahmadiyya, Ismailis, WD Deen Muhammad, Bohri’s, Nation of Islam, Alawites, Wahhabis, and others vary in practices from region to region. Even our rules are divided into six different schools of thought. Islam practiced by Baghdadi is not the same as the one practiced by any American Muslim.  All of them are Muslims in their own right, and none of us have the power or permission from God to belittle or denigrate the other.

If God had said no to a Muslim woman marrying a non-Muslim man, it would have been told in the Quran, and there is not even an inference. God does not make mistakes; instead, he empowers us to figure out our equilibrium.

The decision to marry rests in the hearts and minds of the individuals marrying. It is their life, and it is God who puts love in their hearts for each other.

God bless the Interfaith and Interracial Couples! Despite their religious, racial or cultural differences, they are setting the new standards of civility by showing the world how-to live-in harmony. Isn’t that what God wants? We have to cherish and honor the couples who embrace genuine humanity by accepting each other’s uniqueness.

When people are showing extreme intolerance towards each other, the interfaith and interracial couples are showing the way to live in harmony and are contributing to the idea of one nation. They are indeed exemplary patriotic Americans.

If we can learn to respect the otherness of other and accept the God-given uniqueness of each one of the seven billion of us, then conflicts fade and solutions emerge.

The sole intent of this essay is to understand the struggle of “Single American Muslim women” and keeping them from living with frustrations of culture and their wants and needs. We have expanded our fold to be reflective of God’s boundlessness and extending Prophet Muhammad’s mercy to the entire universe. After all, God says, he created all of us from one single couple; thus, we are all one family and should not have any barriers between us.

Dr. Mike Ghouse is committed to building cohesive societies and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. His new book, the “American Muslim Agenda” is about everything you wanted to know about Muslims. The book is available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble and Kindle. Mike is a public speaker, author, interfaith wedding officiant, a newsmaker and the executive director of the Center for Pluralism in Washington, DC. More about him in three formats at https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikeghouse/

Muslim Wedding Officiant

Muslim Marriages in the United States

About 40% of men and women in the United States marry outside their faith. That is a Muslim, Hindu, Christian, Jewish or the other will chose to marry a man or a woman from the other faith.  Let me make the statement more accurate, they don’t choose to marry the person from other faith, but the person they fall in love with happens to be from the other faith.

Love knows no bounds, who you fall in love with, why you fall in love with someone is not a science. There is no rhyme or reason to it.

The Great Urdu poet, Mirza Ghalib occupies a prime spot in the world of poetry.  There is not an aspect of life he has not written a poem about, particularly about love and romance.

ishq par zor nahīñ hai ye vo ātish 'ġhālib' 
ki lagā.e na lage aur bujhā.e na bane

Simply put, you don’t choose to fall in love with a person because he or she meets your criteria of beauty, wisdom or wealth.

You fall in love because you like the way he laughs or she turns her head, the way she looks at you or the way he smiles at you.  Love simply descends upon you, even before you know it.

God in the Quran, 30:21, says, “And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect.”

Marriage is indeed an expression of a commitment to a relationship between two individuals.  The men and women who take the bold step to become one regardless of their origins, faiths, races, and ethnicities must be applauded. They are setting an example of how-to live-in harmony despite their differences.

When you hear a Muslim woman cannot marry a non-Muslim, or a Jewish or Hindu woman should not marry a person from other faiths, what they are saying is that they want to keep their loved ones within their fold, their tent. Nothing wrong with that! It works for them.  However, it is not a religious expression, it is a patriarchal and cultural idea. When we live in a society where we interact with people of different faiths, we have to enlarge our tent to accommodate the universe.  

I would urge you to read this thoroughly written article – Can a Muslim Woman marry a Non-Muslim man? Indeed, that is the problem with men of all religions including Islam, Hinduism, Judaism, Christianity, Sikh, and even Bahai faith. One of the Rabbi’s told me that the article holds good for Jewish tradition as well.  The article is at http://interfaithmarriages.org/can-a-muslim-woman-marry-a-non-muslim-man/

I am blessed to have officiated secular ceremonies for a few, and religious ceremonies for Jewish-Christian, Hindu-Christian, Bahai-Jewish, Hindu-Jewish, Atheist-Jain, and several other combinations. Being a Muslim, I am pleased to have officiated weddings for Muslims in a variety of combinations; Muslim-Christian, Muslim-Jewish, Muslim-Hindu, Muslim-Mormon, Muslim-Sikh, Muslim-Jain, Muslim-Buddhist and Muslim and an Atheist.

For full details, please visit the site: www.InterfaithMarriages.org

Mike Ghouse, Wedding Officiant
Contact: Mike@Interfaithmarriages.org

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